feat: replace NATS ingest with procrastinate Postgres queue (#183)

Re-architect document ingest from the shared NATS-glued document-processor to a
per-tenant, in-process model owned by nextcloud-mcp-server (Deck #183). The MCP
server now owns both sides of ingest:

- Producer (api role): the scanner defers one job per changed document into the
  app's Postgres via procrastinate (queueing_lock dedup; no execution lock, so a
  crashed worker can't deadlock a doc — Qdrant upserts are idempotent).
- Consumer (worker role): `nextcloud-mcp-server worker` drains the queue and runs
  the existing process_document pipeline; a periodic task reclaims jobs orphaned
  in `doing` by a crash.

INGEST_QUEUE selects the transport (auto: postgres when DATABASE_URL is Postgres,
else the in-process anyio queue for SQLite/dev). procrastinate manages its own
tables (applied on a fresh DB at startup and by `db upgrade`). The vector-sync
status surface reads job counts from Postgres in postgres mode. procrastinate +
psycopg3 ship in the [postgres] extra; the app's own engine still uses asyncpg
(driver unification is a follow-up handled in the rendered Helm chart).

NATS JetStream, the Postgres-queue stub, the bus status subscriber, and nats-py
are removed.

BREAKING CHANGE: the external-NATS-ingest env vars are removed
(INGEST_MODE, STATUS_BACKEND, INGEST_BUS_URL, INGEST_BUS_NUM_REPLICAS,
FACT_EVENT_EMITTER). Use INGEST_QUEUE (memory|postgres) and the `worker`
command instead. TENANT_ID is retained (no longer NATS-subject-charset-validated).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

nextcloud_mcp_server/models/semantic.py

@@ -170,6 +170,17 @@ class VectorSyncStatusResponse(BaseResponse):
         description='Sync status: "idle", "syncing", or "disabled"',
     )
     enabled: bool = Field(default=False, description="Whether vector sync is enabled")
+    ingest_queue: str | None = Field(
+        default=None,
+        description='Ingest queue backend: "memory" or "postgres" (Deck #183)',
+    )
+    job_counts: dict[str, int] | None = Field(
+        default=None,
+        description=(
+            "Per-status ingest job counts (todo/doing/failed/…) on the postgres "
+            "queue backend; None on the in-memory backend"
+        ),
+    )
 
 
 __all__ = [