feat: replace NATS ingest with procrastinate Postgres queue (#183)

Re-architect document ingest from the shared NATS-glued document-processor to a
per-tenant, in-process model owned by nextcloud-mcp-server (Deck #183). The MCP
server now owns both sides of ingest:

- Producer (api role): the scanner defers one job per changed document into the
  app's Postgres via procrastinate (queueing_lock dedup; no execution lock, so a
  crashed worker can't deadlock a doc — Qdrant upserts are idempotent).
- Consumer (worker role): `nextcloud-mcp-server worker` drains the queue and runs
  the existing process_document pipeline; a periodic task reclaims jobs orphaned
  in `doing` by a crash.

INGEST_QUEUE selects the transport (auto: postgres when DATABASE_URL is Postgres,
else the in-process anyio queue for SQLite/dev). procrastinate manages its own
tables (applied on a fresh DB at startup and by `db upgrade`). The vector-sync
status surface reads job counts from Postgres in postgres mode. procrastinate +
psycopg3 ship in the [postgres] extra; the app's own engine still uses asyncpg
(driver unification is a follow-up handled in the rendered Helm chart).

NATS JetStream, the Postgres-queue stub, the bus status subscriber, and nats-py
are removed.

BREAKING CHANGE: the external-NATS-ingest env vars are removed
(INGEST_MODE, STATUS_BACKEND, INGEST_BUS_URL, INGEST_BUS_NUM_REPLICAS,
FACT_EVENT_EMITTER). Use INGEST_QUEUE (memory|postgres) and the `worker`
command instead. TENANT_ID is retained (no longer NATS-subject-charset-validated).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

pyproject.toml

@@ -46,7 +46,6 @@ dependencies = [
     "dynaconf>=3.2.13,<4.0",
     "mistralai>=2.4.5",
     "sqlalchemy[asyncio]>=2.0",
-    "nats-py>=2.14.0",
 ]
 classifiers = [
     "Development Status :: 4 - Beta",
@@ -134,6 +133,8 @@ nextcloud-mcp-server = "nextcloud_mcp_server.cli:cli"
 [project.optional-dependencies]
 postgres = [
     "asyncpg>=0.29",
+    "procrastinate>=3.8",
+    "psycopg[binary,pool]>=3.2",
 ]
 
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